about jabber weakness...
from time to time i am thinking about binary efficient protocol with best of xmpp concepts in core, but..., i am to lazy to create it, also i am not good at advertising things to public, so it will be unknown even if i ever implement it...
so for now jabber is the only solution we have
about money, i do not need all at once, it will be ok to be small donations from time to time via different payment systems (via darknets, hidden, secure, unknowm .... ))))) )))